Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Happy Dating Equals Good Flirting

When you gaze longer than normal, it can work wonders in trying to get someone's attention. You should only gaze not more than 5 seconds each time along with a smile. It will show the man across the bar that you have a level of interest in him. If he has enough self-confidence, he will take your sign and come chat you up. If you are a guy, you can take the above as a sign that she is flirting with you!

The mirror effect has actually got a lot to do with the body language. What happens is, when you are interested in someone, you actually tend to be leaning slightly forward; as if your body was tuned to what he/she was saying.. It works perfectly with eye contact and a smile. By all means, this can also work both ways. You can use it as a tell-tale sign if the person you are dating (or trying to date) is interested or otherwise from the way he/she is leaning. If he/she leans forward, it will mean that there is interest. For the same matter, when he/she leans back, there is a lack of interest; therefore avoid being desperate by sitting forward.

A beautiful smile has been associated with one of the easiest way to flirt and show signs of interest and works like a charm for both men and women. It is a form of flirting that doesn't appear to be too subtle and direct. Always try to smile with eye-contact. It is one of the most well-known ice-breakers when you meet a person the first time. If there is enough interest level from both parties, sparks can go flying and lead to further things such as an actual date.

The accidental touch, where one of the partners touches the partner on the leg or arm with the intention to add emphasis on a point. It can mean that the person is interested in you. Just bear in mind that they should only come after an hour or so during the first dates; any sooner will mean disrespect towards the lady involved. Also, never touch deliberately unless it is to return any signs of earlier interest. However, never over do it with excessive touching.

The Foot Play is an excessively direct way to flirt with someone. You must have seen this a dozen times in movies. This can be a really corny and cheesy, flirty method. Therefore, make sure that you at least know your date well enough before pulling something like this. It can be taken the wrong way.

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